Effortless Purpose

If the Blues Brothers (1980 movie) knew their purpose so can you. Jake and Elwood said “We’re on a mission from God.” That mission was to save the orphanage where they were raised.

“The two most important days of a man’s life are the day on which he was born and the day on which he discovers why he was born.” Anonymous

Action disconnected from purpose persecutes your soul.

Purpose provides direction. You chase trivial urgencies to find fulfillment until you narrow your attention to your North Star.

Purpose fuels passion. Don’t follow your passion, follow your reason to live.

Unexpected purpose:

Contribution defines purpose. People miss their purpose because it’s effortless. It comes easy to you and things that are easy feel less important.

I’ve always been surprised at the power of my curiosity. Coaching clients often find clarity and energy when I ask questions. It’s natural for me and beneficial for them.

My reflections back to people often make the lights come on. But I’m not trying to enlighten anyone. I’m just saying what I see. Sometimes I just say, “I hear you saying….” Other times I share something I notice based on the time we’ve spent together. It’s surprisingly useful.

I fulfill my purpose with curiosity and noticing. It’s effortless. Trying too hard blocks my contribution. Struggling to ask the “right” question hinders success.

Purpose is energy.

You have energy to press forward when you follow your contribution.

We have many ways to contribute. Some drain us. Others energize us. Follow your energizing contribution.

Other people reveal your purpose.

Looking inward is distraction to finding purpose. Others show you your contribution. Yes, self-reflection brings clarity about things that energize but begin by exploring your effortless contribution to others.

What’s different when people find purpose?

What prevents people from finding purpose?

Dig deeper: Why Purpose Matters: The 7 Powers of Purpose